Forget Halloween…What Mask Do YOU Wear Every Day?
Hello Qurious Readers!
Halloween is upon us and it has me thinking about costumes, and more specifically, masks. I listened to a podcast a few months ago with Ashanti Branch, founder of the Million Mask Movement. His story is powerful and I encourage you all to Google him, listen to his TedX talk, etc. The very abridged version is, he is an educator that discovered while working with youth (particularly with young men) that humans are compelled for various reasons to put on a mask to present to the world in ways we think others want or need us to be. The pictures in this post are from the Million Mask Gallery where young people and adults across the globe have created and submitted their masks. Powerful.
There is so much pressure on young people to perform and conform to their environments. When we get so used to wearing our masks all the time, where is the space to take it off and reveal what is happening behind it? Afterschool programs can provide (and often do) that for young people! How are you holding space for youth to understand when they are showing us their mask AND what is happening behind it. While our mask serves and protects us (maybe even keeps us alive), we desperately need spaces to reveal what is behind it and feel what it is like to be in conversations without fear of judgment or being fixed. As Ashanti Branch shares, “When your heart opens, you can learn what you are passionate about and live a purpose-driven life.”
Did any of that above resonate with you??? (Well, it did with me!) This a powerful activity for us adults also. I went to the website and drew my mask. What I show to the world every day, often does not match the thoughts and feelings behind it. My mask is heavy and it is exhausting to wear, yet, I am often afraid to take it off and reveal what is behind it. In the spaces I do, my creativity and passion have space to shine and I can breathe easier. I feel seen, heard and valued. I want all the people I work with, as well as those I love, to feel that. How can I be better at developing space for myself and others to reveal what’s behind the mask? What could be possible for YOU when you reveal what is behind the mask you wear in the world?
Create your mask and hold space for others in your life to do the same. See what happens and embrace the possibilities.
Until next time…stay EQurious!
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